Finding Community: My Journey into the Phoenix, AZ Sapphic Scene

Stepping Into Sapphic Community in Phoenix—Anxieties and All

Putting myself out there socially has never been easy. As someone who struggles with social anxiety, the thought of walking into a room full of new people—no matter how welcoming—can be overwhelming. But something inside me knew I needed community, so I took a deep breath and showed up.

As of this moment, I've met a few friends and a ton of amazing, sapphic, babes. My heart new I was looking for them. From the moment I started attending local sapphic meetups in Phoenix, I was met with so much kindness and warmth, and super fun, empowering vibes. I found people who understood, who made space for me, and who valued connection in all its forms.

Whether it’s casual coffee meetups, New Year Bingo Card Making, or an amazing Sapphic Sunday open mic, I’ve found pockets of community that feel safe and affirming. It’s been a huge relief to realize I don’t have to be outgoing to belong—I just have to be present. And honestly? Showing up has been so worth it. Hard, but worth it.

If you’re socially anxious but looking for connection, I promise you’re not alone. Take that first step in whatever way feels manageable—you never know what friendships (or maybe even a little sapphic romance) might be waiting for you. More on Boycott Bar later 😉. 🌈 💖 A